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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

PEOPLE: Electing a President Is (kind of) Like Recording a Song


How did you spend your Tuesday night? Chances are at least 50% of your Tuesday night was spent just like mine. If you are an even remotely politically aware American, that is.

I spent my Tuesday night knee-deep in CNN updates and election forecasts.
I spent my Tuesday night cramped in a refurbished closet, as we laid down drum tracks.
I soaked my mind in concern for two futures: the nation’s and my own. And when my mind was wrinkled like a prune, having lounged too long in worry, I found the fate of both futures had perhaps different ends, but similar processes. The process of electing a president is very much like that of recording a song.
I’m a singer-songwriter, in case you missed my bio. I spend any free moment I have thinking of poetic ways to rephrase clichés and recording little ditties that swirl around my head on my iTalk app. People probably think I’m allergic to daylight with the amount of time I spend in the basement practice rooms at Vandy. But the result of my basement-dwelling, never-silent brain is a song. And right now, a song the best thing I am capable of creating, so it’s a joyous event. Sometimes I think about naming them and yelling “It’s a girl!” …Too over the top?  But a song is nothing if it is never heard. It might as well not exist. You must record the song – add different instruments, layer the voices, tailor it to a certain style or genre if you wish.

So the recording process begins.



Though I have recorded demos before, this is my first experience recording full band tracking for my songs. I’ve got an EP in the works! More on that here. With modern technology, the recording process has become both simpler and more in-depth. For my EP, we are recording one instrument at a time (in that little closet I mentioned). First, you get a clean take of the guitar track, playing to a click. Then you lay down some scratch vocals over the top so that all of the other instruments have some sense of a flow of the song. And this is where it gets fun! You bring in different instruments and have them each record unique complementary parts.
Layer upon layer upon layer.
Hour upon hour upon hour.
Then you’ve got to decide what you like and what you don’t. You can decide that along the way, weeding out the parts that clash early on. But in the very end, there comes a point where you add finishing touches, artistic flare to make your song unique, catchy, appealing, and standout.
At last, you have a masterpiece. You’re about to introduce something new and revolutionary to the ears of the universe. You’re welcome, world.
And just before you send the song to iTunes, somebody suggests you mute all of the tracks except for the original acoustic guitar and lead vocals, just like it was when you first wrote it. Sounds like a fun idea. Just for kicks, you do it. You scroll back to the beginning of the tracks and push play.

Ah. That sound! It fills the room and resonates in your mind. It sounds so pure. So true. It sounds like the song you created in the basement with all of its promise, all of its sincerity, all of its simplicity. So just like that, you scrap all of the other layers of tracks on tracks and send just the acoustic version to iTunes.
           
Was all of that work for nothing? No! It was the process.
You had to go through it to realize that you wanted what you had all along.

 So, sometimes, I spend my Tuesday nights recording things that will never be heard, all to realize that I had what I wanted all along. And that’s the 50% of my Tuesday night that probably doesn’t match yours. Once every four years, however, there comes a Tuesday night on which you and I are undoubtedly doing exactly the same thing.

The election process comes to an end. Finally.

And whether you are knee-deep with me in politics, or you are wading in political ads, or you are drowning in the vast ocean of information that is available and pertinent during the presidential election season, we are all in the same pool.

Guess this makes me a real adult. #yeahright
This election is the first in which I’ve had my own ballot. A real ballot! For all of the years I’d been a US government student and somewhat of a poli-sci geek, I’d never imagined opening that giant envelope to find the contents so disappointing. Don’t get me wrong. The official statements are important and I read every word of every one of them. Can you believe some candidates don’t turn one in? WHAT. It just didn’t measure up to the proclamation of democracy I’d learned to expect it to be.

From studying the history of the presidency, here’s what I’d imagined: A couple of good-natured people decide that their best way to create positive change in the world is to govern the nation, they run for the presidency, and one wins.
Now, I’m not naïve. It was impossible to maintain this “founding fathers” perspective on the process of presidential elections. My democratic dreams were squashed with the first television campaign ad I saw.
But I do still hope that those politicians who manage to work their way up the bureaucracy high enough to run for the presidency have some sense of ethical and moral responsibility. I imagine that both Mitt Romney and Barack Obama have good intentions and ideas for bettering the American people.
They probably each started off as regular guys; grew up with an interest in politics and realized that social change through policy was the best thing that they were capable of creating. They jumped through the hoops and passed the tests, and along the way they picked up ideas to make them each unique, catchy, appealing, and standout.
Plan upon plan upon plan.
Promise upon promise upon promise.
At last, you have the presidential candidates we know today. And, Republican or Democrat, they’re each about to introduce something new and revolutionary to the universe. You’re welcome, world.

Somewhere hidden in all of the political rhetoric and debate, there must be a remnant of the original person who is now the candidate. You’ve researched the hot-button issues and you’ve decided on a candidate because they have a new, interesting approach to solving America’s problems.

And just before you put the ballot in the mail, somebody suggests you mute all of the media sources yelling in your head, evaluating the candidates’ actual ability to carry out the role. Sounds like a good idea. And it is. So just like that, we scrap all of the political nonsense and choose someone we deem reliable and true to his word.
           
Was all of that work for nothing? No! It was the process.
You had to go through it to realize that you wanted what you had all along. In this case, America wanted Obama.



PS Just as a song is nothing if it is never heard, so is an opinion nothing if it is not voiced. Thank you to all of you who voiced your opinion in this election. And remember that the presidential election isn’t the only important election!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

PEOPLE: Bad Days Are (kind of) Like Birthdays


You probably think I’m crazy for saying that. But stick with me.

Today was a shambly day for a dear friend of mine. Plain and simple, she had a bad day (cue the extremely over-played Daniel Powter one-hit wonder).

Today is also the 19th birthday of another fabulous girl I’m proud to call friend.  

How could two such opposite events both occupy October 16th?
The answer is simple: Maybe they aren’t so opposite after all.

Bad days. Every now and then there comes a day that you don’t really want to talk about, but deep down inside you kind of do want to talk about it because then at least you’re not the only one who knows how crappy everything is.

You’ve pretty much got two choices here:
1.     You can go around whining and complaining to everyone who will hear your tragic tale, so at least you aren’t alone in the depths of despair (since you’ve dragged everyone else down there with you).

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2.     You can keep it quiet and not let a soul know that anything is wrong, suffering silently, but at least you’re not burdening everyone else with your problems.

As you can see, keeping your bad day a secret or making it the most obnoxious part of everyone’s Facebook feed has essentially the same result. It’s a very fitting lose-lose situation, compounding the frustration. As if having a terrible day wasn’t bad enough!

One last precaution on the silent treatment. Because what happens the next day? If you don’t tell anyone, and then, inevitably your woe-is-me story surfaces, chances are that your friends are going to pity you and say something along the lines of “What? Really? Why didn’t you tell me you had a rough day? You know I’m here for you, right?” Now you’re really stuck.

The flip side of bad days is that they are a reminder that every other day must be a good day simply by comparison! So while today might be Challenger Deep low, other days must be at least sea level; maybe a few are even Mount Everest high.


Birthdays. Say it’s yours. You don’t really want to talk about it and announce your perceived self-importance to the rest of the universe, but deep down inside you kind of do want to talk about it because then at least you can insure that somebody besides you will acknowledge your special day.

Again, you’ve pretty much got two choices here:
1.     You can go around reminding everyone you know that your birthday is in 47 days so they should probably start planning something now. And you don’t want a surprise party or anything, but you never had one as a kid and it sure would be nice. But they don’t need to feel like they have to buy you anything because it’s not that big of a deal, just the day that your grand entrance into planet Earth forever shattered the course of human history. The positive side? At least you won’t have to bake your own cake.  (Other ideas for your Betty Crocker-type friends: something like this one I had when I turned 5).

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2.     You can keep it quiet and not let anyone know that your birthday is tomorrow, because you’re mature and you don’t need to make a big show of it. You guess it’s ok if you’re not showered with presents and desserts…At least you’re not making everybody feel obligated to celebrate you against their will.

As you can see, keeping your birthday a secret or making it the most obnoxious part of everyone’s Facebook feed has essentially the same result. It’s a very merry unbirthday type of lose-lose situation, compounding the frustration. And we’re supposed to be celebrating today!

And one last precaution on the silent treatment. Because what happens the next day? If you don’t tell anyone it’s your birthday, and then, inevitably your desk is littered with “Happy Birthday” cards from your relatives back home who remembered, chances are that your friends are going to pity you and say something along the lines of “What? Really? Why didn’t you tell me it was your birthday? I would have gotten you a gift or something!” Again, you’re stuck.

On the flip side, while birthdays might be starting to make you feel a little old,  they’re a reminder of just how great it is to be alive! Some people can only dream about the chance to celebrate another birthday, but here we are, complaining about how age 50 is the death of us.

So do yourself a favor and solve both of these moral dilemmas.

If you’re having a bad day, take a little “me-time” and just relax. Do something mindless, something you love – draw, cook, program websites – whatever it takes.  Chances are that your day isn’t really as terrible as you think it is. Sit down with a trustworthy friend and review the day’s events. I bet you’ll find that either you’ve exaggerated the situation just a little bit, or (even if your day is truly disastrous) your friend has some comforting advice.

If it’s your birthday, plan your own kind of celebration. The point of a milestone of life isn’t that somebody else remembers it, but that you get to remember it. You’ve lived a whole year from the last time you had a cake with your name on it! Think about all that happened in that year and get excited about what’s to come. Call your mom and thank her profusely for pushing you (literally and figuratively) into the beautiful world you now live in.

…And if you’re really desperate to have other people remember your birthday too, there’s nothing Yahoo answers can’t help you with. It’s a casual approach…kind of.

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

PEOPLE: “How Are You?” Is (kind of) Like the Penny



Vanderbilt’s campus is more than four times the size of Belmont’s campus. I learned this from personal experience before I looked up the numbers today.  I also did a little mapping and found out that in my daily trudge back and forth and back and forth, to and from classes, I cover around five and a half miles a day.  Though the student population is relatively the same between the two schools, I do not run into as many people I know here at Vanderbilt as I did at Belmont. 
Now, obviously there are many other factors that influence that truth, but I’m not a statistician by any means. Nor would I ever care to be one. Actually, I am entirely uninterested in the numbers. (You can read my bio if you’re not sure why).
Instead, I am fascinated by what the numbers represent; their effect on my daily experience.

Because what happens when you do run into someone you know?
You are polite and courteous, of course. And you probably like being friends with this person. So you reach for a familiar phrase that you’ve been taught all of your life communicates care and consideration:
           
“How are you?” you ask.

If I am this friend you are asking, you do not know what you have just gotten yourself into.
            “Well, do you want the short version so you can get on with your day or do you want to actually know what I really feel?” I think.
And I may or may not verbalize this thought, depending on the key factors of how well I know you and how well sleep did it’s job repairing my social-verbal filter the night before.
I know I am not alone when it comes to this obvious inconsistency between question and desired answer. Generally, when people ask “How are you?”, they are looking for a short response. The list of polite and socially-approved options goes as follows:
            Good (or Well ,if you’re a grammar nerd like me)*
            Great
            Awesome
            Swell
            Fantastic
            Ok
            Alright
Fine
            Dandy
*some variations may include the gerund “doing” before the adjective
But the question “How are you?”  is not a very good vehicle for the endgame of one-word reply. The word “how” implies an answer with description and depth, not a meaningless race to finish the sentence before the other person walks off in a different direction.  I am endlessly frustrated by the blatant disregard for true human connection that this question begs.
            Nevertheless, I engage in the monotony and meaninglessness of hallway “How are you?”s, wishing for the day when someone will actually mean what they say. For now, “How are you?”s are pretty much worthless. They are quick, little exchanges that people glaze over without the slightest thought.
           
“How are you?”s are the penny in the currency of human conversation.
 A penny does not have much value. In fact, the cost of making a penny is greater the value of owning a penny. Similarly, the time it takes to hurl social courtesies at one another is greater than the actual depth of relationship gained in that time.
Heck! Sometimes you ask someone how they are and you don’t even get a response! And where does that leave your kind question? On the ground, passed by, like it's only a penny – not worth picking up or responding to.

But we still do it.
We still ask “How are you?”
And the penny is still in circulation.

It’s not because we are unaware of the façade of our question, or because we have some illogical notion that the penny is a valuable form of currency.

Have you ever had a rough day? (Where I’m from, we like to call them “shambly” days because everything around you – maybe even including you – is in shambles).  And then on your way to class, that kid you sit next to in calculus tosses a meaningless social gesture your way:
“Hey! How are you?”
            You make exact change.
            “Good. You?”
            “Good.”
For some inexplicable reason, today that question meant something. No, I’m not going all mushy on you here. It didn’t change the fact that today was shambly. But, today it meant that somebody cared enough to string together some words and verbalize them. And that’s enough for today.              
           

            So, I will continue to ask how people are when I see them on my quarter-marathon of a walk to class.  Join me in perpetuating this seemingly empty phrase! Even if it is simply out of social grace that we exchange these one-cent questions. You never know when someone might find your “How are you?” heads-up and call themselves lucky.